Dinner, Drinks and.... (cont'd)

He walked over and joined us on the couch we had grabbed, sitting to the right of my wife as I sat on the left. We ordered another round of drinks and started chatting. Conversation started out easily and flowed well, he struck me as a more "together" guy that my wife's date from the summer. Part of that was maturity (he's older), but also just had more self confidence and was at ease with the situation. We talked a little about him (his background, experiences and interests) and also talked about our experiences from the summer too. He had been with couples before, which explained the confidence :) Pretty much throughout the conversation I was trying to gauge both his interest in my wife, and more importantly, my wife's interest in him. I noticed that 80% of the time (if not more), he was looking at her while we all talked, I took that as a positive sign (and while I may be biased, I think he would have been crazy not to be checking her out since she looked so good that night with her snug black dress, boots and hoop earrings). I would occasionally try and get a peek around my wife to see if there was any touching of hands or legs going on, but I didn't see anything. At a certain point he excused himself, which gave my wife and I a moment to discuss. Her summary was "nice guy, good looking, but not sure if I want to do anything", which I was fine with, although a little surprised given how good of a time she seemed to be having.

When he came back, we picked right back up talking. At a certain point one of us noticed a guy that was in a larger group across the bar from us, looking over our way. We joked about what he might be imagining (not that anything was really happening between my wife and our guest, but it sure seemed like he was looking for something, haha). We joked a little about that ("Maybe we should give him something to look at"), but still no real contact between the two of them, other than a comment from my wife about how smooth his shaved head was, which was quickly followed by him offering a feel that she took him up on. We had another round of drinks, during which I admittedly ordered one more glass of wine that my wife's usual limit (and yes, I did have ulterior motives, haha). We finished those and then decided it was time to go, so we made our way out of the bar. I intentionally let her go first, then him with the hopes that maybe he would make a move on the way out....but he was just too much of a gentleman. So we got out into the street and started walking down the sidewalk in the direction of where our car was parked. Again, I followed a bit and let him be inbetween my wife and I, hoping something would happen but still nothing, although when I asked where his car was he said "back there" pointing in the opposite direction from where we were heading. After about a half a block, we were going to turn down a side street to head to our car and I figured this would be where there might be a hug goodnight and we'd head our separate ways. I turned for a minute and before I knew it, I hear my wife call his name...she's standing in the doorway of one of the closed shops and motions for him to come closer. He didn't need more, quickly moving into the doorway, putting his arms around her, and kissing her deeply. Her hands moved up his back to hold his head, and pressed her tongue and lips against his as his hands roamed over her body, from her breasts down her stomach to her ass, grabbing it and squeezing it as I could hear the sound of their lips smacking and breathing getting heavier. I could see her hand sliding up under his shirt to feel his body, and his hands lifting the hem of her dress, not taking long before his hands were rubbing her panties right there in the doorway. Fortunately for me, I had my cell phone ready to go and managed to snap a few pictures :-) At one point, in between pictures, I turned and saw two women crossing the street towards us (can only imagine what THEY were thinking!). It was so amazingly hot to see the two of them making out like that, right there on a public street, seeing my wife getting felt up as she kissed him....WOWWWW.

After several minutes of this, the broke things up and separated....I got one last picture of them standing next to each other (either looking like friends or a couple ;-) )...and we thanked him for a great night and headed toward our car. I made it about 10 feet before I took her into a doorway for some making out of my own, seeing her doing that is such a huge turn on, I couldn't keep my hands off her, I even held her hand (something we never do, haha). We got to the car and drove home, her dress up around her waist so I could touch and rub her on the drive as we talked about the experience, what a great night (and further proof that I'm a very lucky husband)!

Dinner, drinks and....

Over the past few weeks, we've been talking about different things we could do next. Ranging from another date with the guy she met this summer, to someone totally new. After some talk, she decided she was up for someone new, but not a big night like we had on the third date with the guy over the summer. I've told her several times that one of (if not the) favorite moment for me from the third date was seeing her making out with another man. As hot as the sex was, just the intensity of watching her kissing (and I mean KISSING) another guy drove me wild. She suggested that maybe we could try just that....her making out with another guy, sometime. We decided to give it try last weekend :-)

She put an ad up looking for suggestions on places to meet guys that would be up for making out in front of me. She got a few replies and after some back and forth, narrowed it down to two choices by Saturday, eventually picking one guy to try it with later that night. She sent him time/place info (for a bar that we've been to...in fact same bar she had been to on her second date), along with my cell phone number. So we headed out for dinner. Might also be worth noting that just a week or so earlier, she had texted me to let me know she had just bought a new, extra-small, black sweater dress....but I hadn't gotten to see it until Saturday night. It's very snug, and short (about mid-thigh) and she wore it with her black boots that have a nice heel....along with some big loop earrings. When she was in the bedroom getting ready and putting on her makeup, I couldn't help but think that she was not only getting dressed up for me, but him too (or maybe all for him!) :)

Had a great meal, then went over to the bar and luckily got there just as a couch in the back was opening up. We grabbed the couch and ordered some drinks as we waited for him to arrive (we got there early so we could scope a good spot). While we were having our drinks and chatting, whe noticed that it wasn't quite as secluded (or dark) as she was hoping, and she also said she was getting nervous. Not really bad nervous, just that anxiety (and I think excitement) that comes with meeting someone new, especially under these circumstances :-) Eventually he arrived (after texting me to let me know he was running late)...

(to be continued)

This weekend

I'm going out of town this weekend, and had an idea for some fun my wife and I can have while I'm away :-) We've had ideas of next steps for real meetings (can share those in another update here if/when we decide to pursue, or if people are interested in just hearing ideas), but for the weekend I've been thinking about doing some virtual sharing. For context, I recently got a new cell phone that has web and email access, so I can check sites and email without lugging a computer with me. This (and the fact that I'm constantly turned on by the thoughts and fantasies that come with having a hotwife) got me to thinking that it would be fun if she did some teasing/flirting (maybe even pleasing) with a guy or two online over the weekend, and sent me some (ok, maybe even all, haha) of the stuff that they talk about. I can just imagine how frequently I'd be checking my phone all weekend for updates from her on what she's up to :-)

I'm heading out on Friday, so we'll see how it goes...if anyone has any other suggestions along these lines, leave a comment :-)

Third Date (part 5....the finale!)

We all relaxed for a bit...kicking back with another glass of wine to catch our breaths :) As we relaxed, my wife asked if we should try out the tub (I had specifically picked this hotel and room because it had a great looking bathtub from the pictures I found on the web). Not needing to be asked twice, I quickly jumped up and got the water running in the bathroom.

Once the tub was full...he hopped right in and sat back while my wife also made her way in to join him. She sat with her back to him, basically sitting on his lap with a little grinding and reaching down between her legs while he rubbed her back. I have to admit, this was a bit awkward for me....I wanted to be in there too but there clearly wasn't room so I stood by the door and watched them. My wife turned around and they kissed some more, the water glistening on her skin as he reached up to play with her tits. She really looked amazing, she still had her silver necklace and bracelet on (both of which I had bought her recently), and seeing her naked, with water on her smooth skin, pouring over her arms, back and breasts while she kissed him, grinding on his lap was super hot.

She then turned again so she was facing away from him and reached down between her legs in the water, clearly stroking him, even though I couldn't really see. This went on for awhile, and then at one point, she looked at me and waved her hand, indicating that she wanted me to leave the room. I really didn't know what to do...I actually got a little mad/jealous (honestly the first time that night that I really felt it strongly), but I did as she wanted and walked into the bedroom. I stood there for what couldn't have been more than a few minutes, hearing the water splashing and some light moans coming from the bathtub. I really wanted to go back in, but also wanted to give her space since she seemed to want it. After standing there, sipping my wine, I was getting more and more angry...so rather than let this incident potentially ruin what had been a great night up and until then, I decided to go back in.

I walked back into the bathroom and suddenly realized I hadn't turned on the camera, so I quickly pointed it at them and turned it on as I watched for a bit. They were still making out so neither really seemed to notice that I had come back or even turned the camera on...they kept kissing, touching, feeling each other and letting the water wash over their bodies. At a certain point, my wife stood up in the tub, facing away from him as he laid back against the edge of the tub. She began to back up, as her ass approached his face so he could slide his tongue and mouth between her legs. This was one of my favorite moments of the night, watching my wife so hot and eager, she was smothering him with her ass and pussy while she braced herself by holding on to the sides of the tub. She was pressing harder and harder on his tongue, wiggling her ass all over his face, as she then took one hand off the side of the tub and put it in the water to stroke his cock. After a few strokes she leaned forward, basically sitting on his face while her mouth went down to take his cock into her mouth in the water.

I was going crazy just watching and couldn't really take anymore...so I turned on the shower (big glass shower across from the tub) and as she came up, motioned for her to join me. She stepped out of the tub and joined me in the shower were we began to make out, tongues in each others mouths, hands all over each others bodies. Within a minute, I noticed him entering the shower too, sliding in behind her as she and I kissed. We took turns kissing her and running our hands over her body as the water poured over all three of us. At one point I remember looking down and seeing her hands wrapped around both of our cocks, and his hand between her legs rubbing her pussy. She came (for what must have been the 4th or 5th time that night) and we all climbed out of the shower to dry off and relax.

After some laying back and chatting, he left and we had some more sex before slowly drifting off to sleep. It was by far one of (if not THE) hottest nights we've ever had. I can't really describe it properly (although I sure have tried with all the updates!), but there was just something about seeing her in total exstasy, losing all her inhibitions and having sex with another man (and me) that is beyond words.....just an amazing night!!!

Third Date (part 4)

She reached into his pants and pulled his cock out as they continued to kiss. His pants fell open as she continued to stroke him while kissing. It didn't take long for her to lean down and take him into her mouth...as I sat there continuing to watch in total amazement. She sucked on his cock for a few minutes then leaned back on the bed as he climbed on top, more kissing and feeling her up as she wrapped her legs around him....they both still had clothes on (although his cock was now out and rubbing against her thong which was exposed as her dress was hiked up). Again, he slid down between her legs and started licking at her thong, pulling it aside so he could taste her again. She was moaning and writhing in total pleasure as his tongue moved over and into her pussy. I put my glass of wine down and leaned in to kiss her, and feel her breasts as he continued to lick her...her moans and gasps getting louder and louder as she now had two men feeling, licking and kissing her. She came again and immediately leaned up to kiss him again,

He moved back a bit to the edge of the bed and she leaned down to again suck on his cock. I climbed around the back of the bed and began to rub her ass as I watched from behind, as she swallowed every inch of his cock in her mouth. I slid my boxers off and began to rub my cock on her dripping wet pussy, it was an incredible feeling watching her suck him while my rock hard cock was rubbing between her pussy lips. After a little rubbing, long enough to get her juices all over my cock, and long enough to watch her playing, sucking and licking on his cock I slid into her. I began to fuck her slowly, in time with the sucking she was doing, each thrust into her pushing her mouth further and deeper onto his cock. I literally could have cum in about a second but wanted to enjoy it so I pumped slowly, enjoying the site of my wife sucking another mans cock, while I fucked her pussy....the same pussy that he had just been licking (and bringing to orgasm) twice already.

I continued the slow fuck and she continued to suck on his cock until I slid out, she moved up and asked "do you have condoms?". He was prepared and went to slip one on while I sat back, she took off her dress and turned to suck on my cock. Her ass was in the air, heels still on as she took my hard cock in her mouth. He returned to the edge of the bed and began to rub her ass while she sucked me....and then he slowly eased his cock into her pussy. There I was, watching as my incredibly sexy wife sucked on my cock, while taking another man's cock in her pussy. The site and sounds of the experience were incredible. He continued fucking her while she sucked me, feeling the vibrations of her moans on my cock. It didn't take long before he was pulling out and she was collapsing next to me. I still hadn't cum (entirely through total will power!), and believe it or not....more was still to come....

Third Date (part 3)

We opened the door and all walked into the room. Before we had gone out to dinner, I had setup the video camera with tripod on the desk that was in front of the bed (figured that the less fiddling that I had to do once we got to the room the better). He noticed the camera but didn't say anything as we all moved to the couch and chair that were in the small sitting area near the bed (see the picture from part 1 to see what the area looked like). We all got a glass of wine and made ourselves comfortable, I sat in the chair, with my wife and him on the couch. We sat and chatted a little, but it didn't take long before my wife was leaning over and kissing him. And not just little pecks, but deep, wet, tongue-in-mouth kisses. This continued for a bit until my wife excused herself for a minute, leaving him alone with me.

I wanted to get the issue of the video camera out of the way, so I told him that I was going to videotape whatever happened, to make sure he wouldn't be surprised by the camera going on. He clearly seemed a bit hesitant about this, stopping to think about it and I have to admit, I thought for a second that he may back out of the whole thing. But I stuck to my point, essentially telling him that this was something my wife and I wanted to do, and we'd make sure the video would be kept safe (keeping our privacy is very important), so he eventually agreed that it would be ok. My wife returned and sat down next to him, her hand on his thigh as we talked some more, the kissing continuing between them. It didn't take long before she was sliding over to get on his lap, straddling him (all clothes still on), her hands around the back of his head as I watched them make out, right there in front of me. I slipped over to the video camera and turned it on, then put on some music...showtime was about to begin :-)

As I sat back down to watch, my wife came over and gave me the same treatment...on my lap, with big, deep kisses...but she was quickly back in his lap, hands roaming. She then got up and made her way to the bed, laying back and he walked over and climbed onto the bed, sliding between her legs as they kissed and felt each others bodies. The sight of my wife, with her black dress and strappy heels on the bed with another man on top of her, kissing as she wrapped her legs around him was amazing. I sat back and enjoyed the view, as his hands moved all over her body, sliding down the top of her dress to expose her tits. He immediately moved his mouth down to start sucking on her nipples as she moaned in delight. It wasn't long before his hands moved down to slide her dress up as he ran his fingers over her thong, she was squirming in delight. His fingers pressing more as her hips gyrated, her legs sliding up in the air as I could see her stiff nipples out of her dress. He slid down her body and put his face between his legs and slid her thong aside as he started to taste her. Her legs wrapped around his head and pulled his tongue into her. I looked over at my wife's face, watching her enjoy herself as this other man pleased her was intense and amazing. Eventually her body started to shudder as she moaned in delight. He got up on his knees and my wife climbed up on him, and kissed him even deeper than she had at any other point that night, and started to unbuckle his belt...

(to be continued...)

Third Date (part 2)

...The seating at the bar was a little awkward, we were on a long-ish couch with a couple of women sitting across the way from us (coffee table in between). I sat on one end, with my wife in between and him on the other end. It actually worked quite well as my wife (ironically) was the most comfortable of the three of us, and because of that and her being in the middle (for the first of a few times that night ;-) ), made the conversation easier.

I made a point of leaving them alone a couple of times, and my wife did the same later, leaving he and I alone for a few minutes. As soon as she left he asked me, "Why are you doing this?", I explained that my wife and I have been together for a long time, and while we loved each other, we were both interested in adding some excitement to the relationship. I also went on to say something to the the affect of "yeah, this is pretty fucked up, haha". She came back and we chatted some more, downed another round of drinks and then decided to go to the bar in our hotel, down the street.

When we got to our hotel bar, we found a great spot across the lobby from the bar that had some tables and a nice wrap around couch. Everyone was in the bar and this area was secluded so we grabbed a corner seat there and I went with him to get drinks. We sat in the corner, facing the lobby with my wife between us (again) and talked a little more, the conversation certainly becoming more sexual. I excused myself to go to the mens room and could feel that there was a charge starting to form, so I intentionally took my time (even took a few deep breaths before going back to the table). When I turned the corner and walked into the room, I could see that my wife had moved a little closer to him, had her leg up on his, and his fingers were gently stroking her calves and lower thigh (my wife later told me that they also kissed while I was away). I sat and tried to act non-chalant, but was incredibly turned on :-) We talked some more (lord knows about what, my mind was elsewhere), and my wife tapped my toe with her heel, encouraging me to touch her other leg. I put my hand on her thigh as I watched him rubbing her other leg, all of this plainly in view of anyone who happened to look over while strolling through the lobby.

That round of drinks didn't take long to get down, at which point we invited him up to the room for another round (we had brought a bottle of wine with us), so we got up and walked over to the elevator. As soon as we got inside I pulled my wife over and gave her a deep wet kiss, feeling her ass through the thin material of her black dress while he stood there and watched. As soon as we stopped kissing, she moved over to him and gave him a deep wet kiss, I could see her tongue slide into his mouth and his hand on her back and ass just as the elevator door opened, making our way to our room.

(to be continued...)

[by the way, just as I was finishing this post, my wife came in and I told her I was blogging, so she got down on her knees and gave me a fantastic blowjob :-)]

Third Date (Part 1)

WOW....what an amazing night we had, it was so fantastic that I'm going to break up the recap into multiple parts so I can go into detail to record it all :-)

We checked into our hotel in the late afternoon, was a great room with a king size bed, sitting area (coffee table, couch and an armchair) and a killer bathroom. The bathroom had a nice big glass shower, large tub and top notch design all around. After we got a little settled, we went down to the bar for a quick drink and snack before dinner. During the snack (and even on the drive over) we talked a little about rules and plan, not in detail because we didn't want to have some grand plan that would make the night feel scripted, just some basics about was ok/not ok and talk about how we should give "space" as needed (I had mentioned that I thought it would be good if I left them alone at times based on some feedback I got on a forum site dedicated to hotwives). My wife said she didn't think that would be needed at drinks, but maybe once we got to the room.

After our appetizers we went up to the room to get dressed, she tried on a couple of options and went with a sexy little black dress, her heels (the ones I had bought for her before and she wore on her second date with him). At dinner, she admitted to getting a little nervous (I was actually nervous all day, had never met the guy and wasn't sure what was going to happen that night, but she was very relaxed). Was nice to have some wine and chat and help calm our nerves a little.

After dinner, we headed over to the bar that we had arranged to meet him at. When we got there we quickly realized it wasn't an ideal spot in that there wasn't alot of seating and what seating there was was either taken or not very secluded. Fortunately, we managed to grab a decent spot on a couch across from a couple of arm chairs. We were there a little early so we had time to have a drink while we waited for him to arrive. I admit that I was a little tense at this point, although my wife made a great joke that helped me relax (there was a middle aged, overweight guy that walked through the lobby and she said 'there he is!', she got me for a second and that was a nice icebreaker :-))

Finally, he arrived and came over to join us. I shook his hand, and my wife gave him a hug, nothing over the top, and later she told me he seemed a little unsure about how to react to the hug given it was the first time he had met me, so we ordered more drinks and chit chatted to break the ice.

(to be continued...)

Third "date"

As you can probably tell from the last post, it's been a rollercoaster here lately, with things definitely heading in the "up" direction of late :-)

Way back after the first date, my wife and I were talking about next steps and had thought that we'd prefer to meet with him together, with the possibility of having fun all together. After the second date (and the events that transpired after), we weren't as sure and decided to table the conversation until we had some more distance and perspective on it. After slowly "dipping our toes into the pool" since the second date, with lots of talking about how we felt, both immediately after the date and in the days that followed, it was sounding more and more like we were heading towards actually sticking to our plan to meet him together. Well, I'm happy to say that as of right now, we appear to be on for this weekend :-)

So far we (we as in me, haha) have...

* booked our hotel room
* bought a tripod for the video camera
* bought tapes for the video camera

Even heard from him recently asking if we were still on, so right now looks like things are a go. Leave a comment if you can think of something we're missing!

Second Date

Finally, here's the update from the second date...

As mentioned earlier, my wife had lined up a second date with the same guy. We had talked about what the second date might be like and agreed that kissing would be ok and really nothing else would happen. She arranged to meet him at a bar in the city (one we had been to before). She picked the place because it was familiar, although I had suggested another place that might be a little nicer and had a parking lot (good for her convenience and safety), turns out this small detail turned out to be important as the night unfolded.

She was getting ready in the bedroom and I waited in the living room, wondering what she would wear that night. When she came in, she had a tight, low cut t-shirt, above the knee skirt and the shoes I had bought her a few months ago. As soon as I saw the shoes, I got a funny fealing, I guess it was jealousy but since I rarely feel jealous, it was hard to pinpoint at the time. I got the feeling because I hadn't had a chance to see her wear them out on a date with me yet (in fact, just the previous weekend I had asked her to wear them to the movies, but she thought they were too dressy for that), and now her she was wearing them for him. She could tell I was a little uncomfortable so we talked about it, and after some back and forth decided she should wear them...I have to admit she did look GREAT in them :-)

We kissed and she left. She drove over to the city to meet him (she later that she felt great, sexy and young, excited for a few drinks with him while she drove). About 30min later she arrived and called me as we had planned, told me she saw him at the bar and would call me at 11pm, when we had decided would be a good time for her to leave (she didn't want to stay out late or drink too much since she gets some bad hangovers). I tried to pass the time but just like the first time, was kind of nervewracked, but not as much as the first time since we had been through the first date jitters and I was expecting a pretty early night. Fast forward to 10min to 11 and she calls me to tell me she's going to have another drink, will call me when she's ready to leave. It was really loud in the bar so we couldn't really talk, which made it hard for me to figure out when she would call back since we were deviating from "the plan" a bit. Before she hung up, I did manage to ask if there was any touching and she said no, not really, then she had to go.

The next hour was among the most stressful that I've had in awhile. I sat there waiting for her to call, trying to figure out when she would be leaving, what she was doing as I sat at the computer with my cell phone by the keyboard, waiting for it to ring. There were about 20 different times that I wanted to pick up the phone and call, but never did....I felt that calling her would either show a lack of trust (which I've never had an issue with with her), or interrupt a nice night out, or both. Finally at exactly midnight the phone rang and it was her, I could tell she was more than a little tipsy and there was a strange vibe from her voice, I asked where she was and she said she was on her way home. I asked how it went and she said "I gave him a blowjob"....my heart sunk, I felt bad and she could tell...we tried to talk about it on the phone but agreed it would be best if we waited until she got home.

In retrospect it's hard to explain exactly why, but it was a combination of feeling a little deceived (she had said nothing would happen that night) and like I missed out on something amazing (her first time with another guy). I also have a real temper sometimes and the fact that I had a few beers in me didn't help. I'll spare all the details, suffice to say that when she got home we talked, and argued, and had a really emotional night, barely slept a wink for either of us and had to deal with that the next day.

It was a rocky step, but we kept talking about it and everything is good now, great that we can have such open conversations about these things and understand what does and doesn't work for us. We also came the conclusion that we all (me, her and the other guy) all contributed to what happened that night, and there were some good lessons learned. In retrospect, we agreed that we went from 0 to 120 mph (no dates to dates by herself) and should think about slowing the ride down a little, but not stopping it :-)

We're still talking about our next steps, will keep the blog updated with news as it happens...

p.s. the story behind the blowjob is that during drinks her date asked her a few times if he could kiss her, she said "not in the bar". They chatted more and apparently after the quick talk she and I had at 10min to 11, where I asked if "anything was happening" she stepped things up a bit and started to rub her foot on his leg. He touched her leg under the table in return. After they finished their drinks, he walked her down the street towards her car, they stopped a few times to kiss on the street. After a few stops and several kisses, they found a little area off the street and went to a bench that was out of view. More kissing and one thing led to another, and she ended up sucking his cock right there on the bench. And yes, despite all the emotion of that night, I do find it to be a hot story now :-)

This weekend

My wife and I have been talking alot this week about her going on another date (like the first one) this weekend. I admit it was mostly my idea, but I was very conscious to not push it, just throw it out there to see what she thought, the week went something like this....

Monday: me - "Maybe you should try and go out for drinks again this weekend"; her - "Well, we'll have to see" (i.e. not really that interested)
Tuesday: me - "Have you talked to him to see if he's available?"; her - "No, have been busy with other things" (i.e. still not interested)
Wednesday: me - "(via email) here are some links to some bars downtown, you know, just in case you were looking for a place to go on Saturday, haha"; her - no reply via mail, but then that night she asked why I was so interested in her going out again and I just said I think it would be hot....she said "how far can I go this time?"

Maybe it was the way she said it, or the look as she asked, or just the fact that she asked at all...but I IMMEDIATELY got turned on. I could tell she was thinking about sex, but I also know her and she's said in the past that she wants me there for that (we both want that)...so I said "well I'd like to be there if there's going to be sex, but kissing would be ok with me". She kind of smiled and said she figured she had to at least put out that much.....

Earlier tonight, we talked some more and at a certain point she looks up from her laptop and said, "ok, I sent him an email to see if he's available for Saturday!"

:-)

Things are still moving along :-)

Things have been busy here for the past few weeks, and haven't had much time for updating the blog or keeping our adventure into the hotwife lifestyle loving, but things are progressing, just at a slower pace than they were before.

Most recently, we've been talking about meeting my wife's "friend" (not sure if he quite qualifies as a boyfriend yet, but please chime in if you think he does!), at a hotel in town sometime in August. What we've talked about to date, which is admittedly short on details, is to get a room at a very nice hotel in the city, my wife and I go out for dinner and arrange for him to meet us in the hotel bar for drinks afterwards. After some chat, and flirting (I wonder which side of the table she'll sit on?), we're all feeling good and decide to head up to the room for some real fun. My wife had sent him a mail several weeks ago asking if he was into it (the words that she used in the mail were incredibly hot, its amazing to see the things that she writes to him), and he replied with a strong YES!

So now we're working on planning the day and picking the hotel....

And in related news, she went shopping at the mall this weekend for a new bathing suit, my jaw hit the floor when she showed me the sexiest little black bikini (she's never worn a bikini in all the years I've known her), this is going to be a very fun summer :-)

After the Date

It's been awhile since I updated, so I'll do my best to recount the days after her first date. For starters, we consistently had some of the best sex that we've ever had. Day after day we were still turned on from her first date experience, we'd talk about the date, and what we thought might happen next (the guy she had met was clear in his mail that he wanted an 'affair' type of relationship, something ongoing where she would meet him for sex one or two times per week). We weren't sure if we were ready for that, but the idea sure was hot and let to night after night of sex. Most of the time, she would tell me about email exchanges she had with him, and the fact that she was thinking about him, and what might be coming next.

After several nights of torrid sex, always ending up with me pounding her while she talked about sucking him or fucking him at the same time, we got a mail from him with a request for pictures. He wanted to see her in a short skirt, with a thong (and pics of her thong as she bent over in the short skirt), along with a button down top, something that she could unbutton to tease him with. Fortunately, I've done a good job of stocking her closet with sexy clothes like this so we were able to accomodate and spent a night taking pictures...not for me, but for him. She went and changed for him, then came into the room...tight black button down top, shortest of short black skirts and her new black shoes, the very same shoes that I had bought her for her date.

We kissed and rubbed our bodies together before I got the camera out. She posed in various positions, asking me how her ass looked "do you think he'll like this?" she would ask as she raised her skirt to show off her thong. I would grab her ass and slide a finger between her legs, feeling her wetness and say "yes, almost as much as you like showing off for him". After we took several pictures, the camera had to go and our clothes had to come off....except for her skirt and heels, she looked too good in them to take them off, but fortunately I was able to lick and taste her while she was on top of me sucking on my cock, no doubt thinking about her date while she did so. We teased and tasted each other until she had to have me (or maybe him?) inside her....she got on top and rode me until I told her to get on all fours so I could finish her doggy style. Her ass and hips are amazing to hold on to normally, and even better when she's smiling back and me talking about having a cock in her mouth as I pound her from behind....

The Date (part 3)

Here's a pic of what she wore that night, notice how sheer that top is, and that necklace is one that I bought for her last year....


...sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring was really hard....exciting, nervewracking and totally arousing all rolled into one. I couldn't help but wonder what she was doing at that very moment, sitting in a bar with a total stranger. Surely they were just chatting and having drinks, but was he touching her? Maybe touching her arm, or putting his hand on hers...over her wedding ring? (which she did wear that night) Or maybe she touching him? Maybe her hand was on his thigh under the table as the waitress came over to take their orders, did she notice that my wife had a wedding ring on and he didn't (not to mention he's younger than her)? The possibilities alone were driving me crazy.

Eventually she called, I answered on the first ring, and she was walking back to her car, heels clicking and sounding like a very excited woman. She told me that she had a good time, was safe and coming home soon....

When she got home, I was all over her, and she was all over me. A long, deep, passionate kiss at the door, then some wine and beer for both of us as we had a lot to talk about. We sat on the couch, drinking and chatting, she told me that he was very nice, cute, and a big guy (bigger than me, and I'm 6'1" 195lbs"), they mostly chatted about random stuff to break the ice, but did get a little into his wants and desires. She was obviously excited and a little buzzed (maybe the did do more than talk??), and went on about how the next steps would be for her to meet him alone, at a hotel. I really couldn't believe what I was hearing, I was still trying to really come to grips with the fact that she actually:

(a) posted an ad to meet another man
(b) exchanged emails, chats and pictures with several men over the course of a few weeks
(c) actually scheduled a date with one of them
(d) actually went out on the date

and now she's telling me she's ready to go and meet him for sex. A wave of strong feelings came over me, I told her that I wasn't so sure that meeting him alone for sex was ok....and she said "but that's what he wants"...in a way that made me feel like what I wanted didn't matter, that this stranger had taken over and my wife was now his slut. It was intense.

After some more talking, we were both so turned and feeling good from the drinks that we were all over each other. Clothes were flying, and she was in total heat...it was some of the best sex we've had in years, culminating with me pounding her from behind while she talked about sucking on his cock....

The Date (part 2)

...when the door closed, I started thinking how I could calm my nerves and get through the next couple of hours (she said she would spend about an hour with him at the bar). I tried to check out sports scores...no luck, tried to do some work...no luck, just couldn't get my mind off what might happen that night. I cracked open a beer and then the phone rang, at first I thought "oh crap, it's her family or friends calling and I'll have to make up some story about where she is". It was her, she was stuck in some terrible traffic. Since she had gotten a late start, and was now stuck in total gridlock traffic, she was going to be really late for her date. I offered to call the guy to tell him she was going to be late (we had his cell number), but she didn't want me to call...another interesting sign of how she really wanted to do this herself. I suggested she call the bar and ask them to pass a message along for her, she took my advice and about 20min later called me again to let me know the traffic was starting to clear and now she was on her way for real.

I was having a hard enough time trying to figure out how to occupy myself for 2hrs, but now it was going to be at least 3hrs because of the delay, talk about torture! There was also a very small part of me that wondered if this would mean the end of the date, either because she got cold feet while sitting in traffic or he doesn't get the message and leaves the bar, thinking she's a flake. Well about 10min later she calls me again, her car is parked and she's walking to the bar. I can hear the clicking of her heels as she's making her way down the street, my mind is racing thinking about people seeing her on the street, well dressed and having no idea that she's going in to meet another man for a drink. She tells me she's at the door and going in, she'll call me when the date is done....

(to be continued)

The Date (part 1)

I know I've been a little slow getting an update here on her date, and I don't have much time tonight but wanted to at least get the story started.

She went out on her first date this weekend...it was a totally nervewracking, but totally exciting experience for both of us. The day of the date was just kind of weird, we both knew what was coming at the end of the day but didn't talk much about it, nerves and butterflies in stomachs kind of thing. Once the sun went down and it was time for her to start getting ready, I definitely started to feel weird...not bad at all, just weird. Seeing her go into the bedroom to get ready, while I was trying to be nonchalant and read a magazine was brutal, lol. I could hear her opening closet doors, going in and out of the bathroom to get her makeup on, the normal stuff we do when we go out, only difference was that I wasn't going anywhere I and knew she was going out with a guy she had been having some pretty hot conversations with over the past few weeks. There was a part of me that worried about her safety (after all, the guy is a total stranger), and how her night might go (really wanted to make sure that she was (a) safe and (b) had a good time).

She came into the living room and looked great, and yes I did get turned on instantly to see my wife dressed up for another man. It was an intense feeling seeing her in boots and jewelry that I had bought for her. I couldn't help but wonder what she was wearing under her tight dress slacks, as I smelled her perfume...the stuff she wears for me. After some coordination talk (like when I should expect her to call, when she would be home, who should call who, etc), she walked out the door....

(to be continued!)

Shoes, Shoes, Shoes!

I had to return a pair from yesterday (wrong size) and while I was there I saw another woman wearing a pair of shoes that my wife had seen the weekend before. When we had seen them the weekend before I wasn't wild about them, but could tell my wife liked them. Seeing them on this other woman (another attractive wife), strutting around the store checking herself out, got me pretty hot so I bought the same shoes for my wife :-)

Here's a picture of them, we'll call them option 3:





















Right now, it looks like she's a go for her date tomorrow night. We talked about it for about an hour tonight, made sure she was comfortable, had a plan (time/place and what we both are ok with), and she left the conversation more comfortable and eager than she was before (she was interested, but nervous). Apparently she's confirmed with one guy already, has to pick the place...we looked at a few options tonight and narrowed it down to a couple of choices that looked good to her.

Of course after all this talk, shoe modelling and planning for the weekend, I had to get some action and she didn't disappoint :-)

Shoe Update

She emailed both of her online boyfriends tonight, giving them some updates about meeting for a drink this weekend. She hasn't settled on a place/time yet, but I really think this might actually happen this weekend. What might happen? Well, I'm pretty sure it will be just drinks, and some flirting of course. She's been emailing/chatting with these guys for a number of weeks and she keeps telling me that she doesn't want anything other than a drink and chat, to see if there's chemistry. Apparently both are on board with this (which is good, and why they're in the running for her, she wants to take it slow). One possible catch is that she hasn't actually told either of them that I know about all of this yet, they both think that she's a married woman that is looking for something on the side....I have a feeling neither will really care about me knowing, hell, guys are guys :-)

In preparation for the weekend, she's getting her hair done tomorrow (another sign she's getting ready for this!), and there's the shoe situation. I went to the mall the other day and did find a couple of pairs that I liked so bought both, and she just tried them on. She's leaning towards one of these (although I need to go back to get the right size)...can you guess which ones she likes best? Leave a comment and let me know which ones you like and which ones you think she'll wear out!

Option 1:



















Option 2:

Shopping for Shoes

We've been talking more about her actually doing this date. She has a couple of options (from the guys she met on craigslist) but hasn't decided on who/when/where to meet just yet, but it could be as soon as this weekend....which has put both of us into "get her ready mode" :-)

Last weekend we went to mall to look at some shoes (she had mentioned weeks ago that if she was going to go out on a date, she wanted new shoes). I've always had a bit of a thing for sexy shoes on a woman and the idea of me buying shoes for her to wear for another guy was almost too much for me to take. So we went to the mall and I was surprised at some of the shoes she was interested in. For some context, I've gotten her sexy/stripper shoes in the past:



and she's always been willing and eager to wear them for me around the house, but I've never gotten her to wear them out in public (even when out of town). Well at the mall the other day, she's eyeing shoes that are basically stripper shoes, black, leather, strappy with platform heels. I couldn't believe my eyes. She even took one off the table and tried it on, rolling up her jeans...I instantly got hard.

Since then, I've been looking for the right pair and have found a pair of Jessica Simpson shoes that drive me crazy, but haven't been able to get them in the right color/size. I've been to four different stores in 2 days, spent over an hour online last night trying to find them with no luck. When I told her I was doing this she said it mad her hot, and offered to send me some links to shoes that she likes, here's one of the pairs she sent me a link to:

http://www.zappos.com/product/7533238/color/147443

And oh yeah, she's also made an appointment to get her hair done on Friday....

The Setup

My wife and I have been talking about expanding our horizons for a few years now. We've met other couples and have explored fantasies together, but for the last couple of years my biggest fantasy has become sharing her with another guy. Until recently, I was pretty sure it would just remain a fantasy as she's been hesitant to move beyond some talk.

But over the last few months, things have started to change. I had done some chatting with guys online and shared her pictures, even tried to setup a meeting with a younger guy once when we were out of town for a weekend getaway. Unfortunately the guy flaked on us and it never happened (to be fair, she may have chickened out at the last minute too, haha).

There are some other things that have happened since then, but the thing that got me to starting this blog is what's been happening over the last few weeks. After some more talk, she went ahead and posted an ad on craigslist. This was amazing for a couple of reasons:

(1) she did it completely on her own
(2) she didn't really say much in her ad, but got a TON of responses

Over the past few weeks, she's struck up conversations with a bunch of the guys, but the whole time has really kept things quiet and private (except when she asks me for a picture to send them...I have all the sexy pictures of her on my computer). When we talk about it, she talks about going out by herself to meet one of them for a drink, she never mentions me coming along.

This is driving me wild...so much so that I honestly can't stop thinking about it and hence my need for a blog :-)

I know this is a pretty tame first post, but I'd love to hear if there are people out there that are interested in more....