My wife and I have been talking alot this week about her going on another date (like the first one) this weekend. I admit it was mostly my idea, but I was very conscious to not push it, just throw it out there to see what she thought, the week went something like this....
Monday: me - "Maybe you should try and go out for drinks again this weekend"; her - "Well, we'll have to see" (i.e. not really that interested)
Tuesday: me - "Have you talked to him to see if he's available?"; her - "No, have been busy with other things" (i.e. still not interested)
Wednesday: me - "(via email) here are some links to some bars downtown, you know, just in case you were looking for a place to go on Saturday, haha"; her - no reply via mail, but then that night she asked why I was so interested in her going out again and I just said I think it would be hot....she said "how far can I go this time?"
Maybe it was the way she said it, or the look as she asked, or just the fact that she asked at all...but I IMMEDIATELY got turned on. I could tell she was thinking about sex, but I also know her and she's said in the past that she wants me there for that (we both want that)...so I said "well I'd like to be there if there's going to be sex, but kissing would be ok with me". She kind of smiled and said she figured she had to at least put out that much.....
Earlier tonight, we talked some more and at a certain point she looks up from her laptop and said, "ok, I sent him an email to see if he's available for Saturday!"
:-)
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Just found your blog from a HW site. It is really interesting that you are so early in the lifestyle and how you are writiing. I hope the date tonight moves to new grounds in your relationship. Your wife looks like a hottie from the pictures you have posted.
ReplyDeleteGoos luck tonight