Saturday, August 29, 2009
Third Date (part 4)
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Third Date (part 3)
I wanted to get the issue of the video camera out of the way, so I told him that I was going to videotape whatever happened, to make sure he wouldn't be surprised by the camera going on. He clearly seemed a bit hesitant about this, stopping to think about it and I have to admit, I thought for a second that he may back out of the whole thing. But I stuck to my point, essentially telling him that this was something my wife and I wanted to do, and we'd make sure the video would be kept safe (keeping our privacy is very important), so he eventually agreed that it would be ok. My wife returned and sat down next to him, her hand on his thigh as we talked some more, the kissing continuing between them. It didn't take long before she was sliding over to get on his lap, straddling him (all clothes still on), her hands around the back of his head as I watched them make out, right there in front of me. I slipped over to the video camera and turned it on, then put on some music...showtime was about to begin :-)
As I sat back down to watch, my wife came over and gave me the same treatment...on my lap, with big, deep kisses...but she was quickly back in his lap, hands roaming. She then got up and made her way to the bed, laying back and he walked over and climbed onto the bed, sliding between her legs as they kissed and felt each others bodies. The sight of my wife, with her black dress and strappy heels on the bed with another man on top of her, kissing as she wrapped her legs around him was amazing. I sat back and enjoyed the view, as his hands moved all over her body, sliding down the top of her dress to expose her tits. He immediately moved his mouth down to start sucking on her nipples as she moaned in delight. It wasn't long before his hands moved down to slide her dress up as he ran his fingers over her thong, she was squirming in delight. His fingers pressing more as her hips gyrated, her legs sliding up in the air as I could see her stiff nipples out of her dress. He slid down her body and put his face between his legs and slid her thong aside as he started to taste her. Her legs wrapped around his head and pulled his tongue into her. I looked over at my wife's face, watching her enjoy herself as this other man pleased her was intense and amazing. Eventually her body started to shudder as she moaned in delight. He got up on his knees and my wife climbed up on him, and kissed him even deeper than she had at any other point that night, and started to unbuckle his belt...
(to be continued...)
Friday, August 14, 2009
Third Date (part 2)
I made a point of leaving them alone a couple of times, and my wife did the same later, leaving he and I alone for a few minutes. As soon as she left he asked me, "Why are you doing this?", I explained that my wife and I have been together for a long time, and while we loved each other, we were both interested in adding some excitement to the relationship. I also went on to say something to the the affect of "yeah, this is pretty fucked up, haha". She came back and we chatted some more, downed another round of drinks and then decided to go to the bar in our hotel, down the street.
When we got to our hotel bar, we found a great spot across the lobby from the bar that had some tables and a nice wrap around couch. Everyone was in the bar and this area was secluded so we grabbed a corner seat there and I went with him to get drinks. We sat in the corner, facing the lobby with my wife between us (again) and talked a little more, the conversation certainly becoming more sexual. I excused myself to go to the mens room and could feel that there was a charge starting to form, so I intentionally took my time (even took a few deep breaths before going back to the table). When I turned the corner and walked into the room, I could see that my wife had moved a little closer to him, had her leg up on his, and his fingers were gently stroking her calves and lower thigh (my wife later told me that they also kissed while I was away). I sat and tried to act non-chalant, but was incredibly turned on :-) We talked some more (lord knows about what, my mind was elsewhere), and my wife tapped my toe with her heel, encouraging me to touch her other leg. I put my hand on her thigh as I watched him rubbing her other leg, all of this plainly in view of anyone who happened to look over while strolling through the lobby.
That round of drinks didn't take long to get down, at which point we invited him up to the room for another round (we had brought a bottle of wine with us), so we got up and walked over to the elevator. As soon as we got inside I pulled my wife over and gave her a deep wet kiss, feeling her ass through the thin material of her black dress while he stood there and watched. As soon as we stopped kissing, she moved over to him and gave him a deep wet kiss, I could see her tongue slide into his mouth and his hand on her back and ass just as the elevator door opened, making our way to our room.
(to be continued...)
[by the way, just as I was finishing this post, my wife came in and I told her I was blogging, so she got down on her knees and gave me a fantastic blowjob :-)]
Monday, August 10, 2009
Third Date (Part 1)
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Third "date"
Way back after the first date, my wife and I were talking about next steps and had thought that we'd prefer to meet with him together, with the possibility of having fun all together. After the second date (and the events that transpired after), we weren't as sure and decided to table the conversation until we had some more distance and perspective on it. After slowly "dipping our toes into the pool" since the second date, with lots of talking about how we felt, both immediately after the date and in the days that followed, it was sounding more and more like we were heading towards actually sticking to our plan to meet him together. Well, I'm happy to say that as of right now, we appear to be on for this weekend :-)
So far we (we as in me, haha) have...
* booked our hotel room
* bought a tripod for the video camera
* bought tapes for the video camera
Even heard from him recently asking if we were still on, so right now looks like things are a go. Leave a comment if you can think of something we're missing!
Saturday, August 1, 2009
Second Date
As mentioned earlier, my wife had lined up a second date with the same guy. We had talked about what the second date might be like and agreed that kissing would be ok and really nothing else would happen. She arranged to meet him at a bar in the city (one we had been to before). She picked the place because it was familiar, although I had suggested another place that might be a little nicer and had a parking lot (good for her convenience and safety), turns out this small detail turned out to be important as the night unfolded.
She was getting ready in the bedroom and I waited in the living room, wondering what she would wear that night. When she came in, she had a tight, low cut t-shirt, above the knee skirt and the shoes I had bought her a few months ago. As soon as I saw the shoes, I got a funny fealing, I guess it was jealousy but since I rarely feel jealous, it was hard to pinpoint at the time. I got the feeling because I hadn't had a chance to see her wear them out on a date with me yet (in fact, just the previous weekend I had asked her to wear them to the movies, but she thought they were too dressy for that), and now her she was wearing them for him. She could tell I was a little uncomfortable so we talked about it, and after some back and forth decided she should wear them...I have to admit she did look GREAT in them :-)
We kissed and she left. She drove over to the city to meet him (she later that she felt great, sexy and young, excited for a few drinks with him while she drove). About 30min later she arrived and called me as we had planned, told me she saw him at the bar and would call me at 11pm, when we had decided would be a good time for her to leave (she didn't want to stay out late or drink too much since she gets some bad hangovers). I tried to pass the time but just like the first time, was kind of nervewracked, but not as much as the first time since we had been through the first date jitters and I was expecting a pretty early night. Fast forward to 10min to 11 and she calls me to tell me she's going to have another drink, will call me when she's ready to leave. It was really loud in the bar so we couldn't really talk, which made it hard for me to figure out when she would call back since we were deviating from "the plan" a bit. Before she hung up, I did manage to ask if there was any touching and she said no, not really, then she had to go.The next hour was among the most stressful that I've had in awhile. I sat there waiting for her to call, trying to figure out when she would be leaving, what she was doing as I sat at the computer with my cell phone by the keyboard, waiting for it to ring. There were about 20 different times that I wanted to pick up the phone and call, but never did....I felt that calling her would either show a lack of trust (which I've never had an issue with with her), or interrupt a nice night out, or both. Finally at exactly midnight the phone rang and it was her, I could tell she was more than a little tipsy and there was a strange vibe from her voice, I asked where she was and she said she was on her way home. I asked how it went and she said "I gave him a blowjob"....my heart sunk, I felt bad and she could tell...we tried to talk about it on the phone but agreed it would be best if we waited until she got home.
In retrospect it's hard to explain exactly why, but it was a combination of feeling a little deceived (she had said nothing would happen that night) and like I missed out on something amazing (her first time with another guy). I also have a real temper sometimes and the fact that I had a few beers in me didn't help. I'll spare all the details, suffice to say that when she got home we talked, and argued, and had a really emotional night, barely slept a wink for either of us and had to deal with that the next day.
It was a rocky step, but we kept talking about it and everything is good now, great that we can have such open conversations about these things and understand what does and doesn't work for us. We also came the conclusion that we all (me, her and the other guy) all contributed to what happened that night, and there were some good lessons learned. In retrospect, we agreed that we went from 0 to 120 mph (no dates to dates by herself) and should think about slowing the ride down a little, but not stopping it :-)
We're still talking about our next steps, will keep the blog updated with news as it happens...
p.s. the story behind the blowjob is that during drinks her date asked her a few times if he could kiss her, she said "not in the bar". They chatted more and apparently after the quick talk she and I had at 10min to 11, where I asked if "anything was happening" she stepped things up a bit and started to rub her foot on his leg. He touched her leg under the table in return. After they finished their drinks, he walked her down the street towards her car, they stopped a few times to kiss on the street. After a few stops and several kisses, they found a little area off the street and went to a bench that was out of view. More kissing and one thing led to another, and she ended up sucking his cock right there on the bench. And yes, despite all the emotion of that night, I do find it to be a hot story now :-)