WOW (part 1)

(disclaimer: yes this will be a multi-part post...too much to tell in one sitting!)

THAT was awesome :)
So As mentioned in my previous post, my wife and I had planned to meet another woman for a drink and see what happens. We had arranged for a night at a nice hotel and had reservations at a new restaurant, we were both excited about the prospect of what lay ahead. We spent the afternoon shopping (I realize how lucky I am to have such an awesome and open minded wife...I told her to make sure she takes advantage of it, and she did with some new shoes, haha). The whole time we were at the mall I kept looking at woman after woman, I wasn't aroused as much as eager and anxious for the night to come. After the mall we went to our hotel to check in, and man, did we end up with a fantastic room. It was a very upscale suite with a bedroom, living room and large bathroom that had a massive shower with two heads and a very spacious tub. Maybe best of all was the fact that one of the walls in the bathroom was glass, so it was effectively a window to/from the bedroom.

We relaxed and went out to dinner, which was a short walk from our hotel room. I was feeling a mixture of anxious/excited and nervous all rolled into one, but felt better after a drink and some food. We had a nice leisurely meal, ordering food as we wanted more along with more drinks. As the meal started to wind down I became more aware of the fact that it was almost "go time". It was literally as we were leaving the restaurant that I started to actually get nervous. I'm not sure what triggered it, but the walk back to the hotel was a little tough, I suppose it was partially the excitement of doing something new and the fact that I was the one who had to "perform" since this time (as opposed to previous times) I was going to be the only guy there :)

We got to the hotel bar and grabbed a booth in the back so we'd have some privacy and ordered another round of drinks. My wife and I were wondering what our "date" was going to wear to meet at the bar, we had told her previously that we liked the idea of having some outfits for her to model once in the room, and also let her know to try and "tone it down" for the bar, last thing we wanted to do was draw a big crowd at the bar in the hotel we were staying at. Pretty soon she texted me, letting us know she was close by and if we were ready to meet her for a drink. I let her know that we were there and shortly thereafter, my phone rang..."I'm here" she said.

She sat down across from me (next to my wife) and we ordered another round of drinks. I have to admit, I was pretty excited just from having two women out for drinks with me (ok ok, it also didn't hurt that I knew what was coming), we made small talk about a bunch of different things that I can barely remember now, other than looking up some movie trivia things on our phones. After we finished off our drinks, we all decided to head up to the room...

Big Night Tonight!

I've been meaning to update for about a week, but have been so excited about tonight that I didn't get around to it. My wife and I just checked into our hotel, in a little while we're going out for dinner and then...we're meeting another woman for drinks and then fun back in our room. And it's not just any woman, it's a porn star :)

This has been a long time fantasy of mine. After talking about it with my wife, and even floating some options by her for women that were in our area, we're finally doing it. I've actually already had a lunch date with the woman that we're meeting tonight, just to get to know each other ... tonight I'm pretty sure we're going to be doing even more than that.

It's been an interesting couple of weeks to say the least, my wife has been amazingly cool about this, I think it's been interesting for her to be on the other side of things (when I went out for lunch it was a little like when she goes out for a drink with a guy). The conversations have been interesting and fun, and she's admitted to being curious about what I email about with the other woman, but also hasn't asked to see the emails, just like when she emails with other guys and I don't ask to see, but am very curious about what goes on in those emails.

Just a quick update for tonight, if I survive tonight I'll be sure to get a more detailed post up sometime soon!

Another night out and...

...another flakey guy.

If you've been reading our blog you can tell that we've been taking a bit of a break from the hotwife adventures. Nothing really intentional other than being busy with other things, and this has always been more of an "interest" for us than a lifestyle, so we try to have fun when we have the time and the interest. This past weekend was one of those times when we had both, so my wife (in preparation) had reached out to some guys that had replied to an ad she had put up several months ago, and had expressed interest in her situation. Back over the summer, she had gone through the usual whittling down of candidates, narrowing her choices down to three (I think) that she was interested in and seemed like guys that would actually show up if given the offer for a meeting over drinks. Over the course of the week she tried to set something up for Saturday, and I (being the ever impatient husband) tried to do the same through a last minute ad of my own. To make a long story short, we spent a good part of Friday and Saturday emailing back and forth with several guys, trying to find the right one that would be up for a no commitment meeting over drinks.

As a side note, we've learned the importance of these meetings (without commitments) to not only make sure a guy is compatible, but also to make sure he's for real. After all, if a guy flakes on meeting for a drink there's a good chance he won't follow through if we got to the next stage, so might as well do that experimenting early. Oh, and the other side benefit of the early meeting over drinks is that if there's chemistry, my wife gets to make out with him a little on the first 'date' while I get to watch :) This is honestly one of my favorite parts of the whole hotwife thing, just as much, and sometimes more, than the actual sex. Especially if that kissing happens to take place in a public setting, like a bar or street :)

So back to Saturday night...my wife had picked out her choice and set up phone numbers so she could text with him during the night (she and I had plans to have dinner together) to coordinate a time and place to meet. After a bit of back and forth texting over dinner, she mentioned to him that I was with her and asked if it was ok for me to join them for a drink. The other guy wasn't immediately into it (in fact he said pretty clearly he wasn't), so my wife and I talked about it a little while we enjoyed our meal and after some back and forth (including him starting to change his mind when he started to sense it was going to be a dealbreaker for me not to be there for the meeting), she decided to go ahead and have a drink with him by herself, and I would go to a nearby bar and wait for her to let me know what was going on. The guy said he was all in for meeting and they started to figure out a place to meet for a drink, when all of a sudden he says he got invited to a party and won't be able to make it...then he hemmed and hawed a bit and said he could meet for one drink before the party, then reverted back to not being able to make it at all.

The whole thing actually was pretty entertaining for us, I was making jokes about how guys are clearly driven by one thing and one thing only (since he seemed pretty much NOT into meeting if I was there but then came around, haha). And I have to admit, it was exciting for me to see my wife change her mind too (initially she was adamant about me being there, but then she too thought about how it might be fun for her to go alone as long as I was nearby. I absolutely love when she gets that kick of confidence and decides to go for something :)

We ended up going to a bar and messing around on our own (lets just say we stood at a spot at the bar where her hand was able to roam down under the view of anyone else to my pants)....and had a great night of fun and sex :)

Her Dream

My wife recently had a dream, thought I'd share what she wrote to me in an email about it :)


"I'm not sure how I ended up with a hooker in my dream, but I did. Just the two of us, alone together. She was already completely nude and facing away from me. I dropped to my knees and let my tongue run along the bottom edges of both her ass cheeks. I could feel goose bumps rise on her skin as she moved her legs a bit farther apart. I licked her skin more, tasting her saltiness, then pushed my tongue between her legs to taste her sweetness. She moaned and turned around. I stood up to kiss her lips, then her neck, then her hard nipples. I began making my way down her body, kissing and licking her until I was back on my knees. Then I woke up, seriously, with my pussy throbbing."

Hope people enjoy it!

Roleplay

Since we haven't had the time (or the luck) lately to find the right guy for another adventure, we decided to try and keep things interesting by exploring some fantasies together. One of the things that I've discovered during our journey into hot wifing is that I really like it when my wife is in charge and in control of situations sexually, so I got her this book for Christmas :)

She's been reading it and we talk about what turns us on, as well as what doesn't turn us on and since the Superbowl was this last weekend, and I've had a long standing fantasy of having a gangbang party during the game, it was time to try things out...it started on Saturday night when before bed, she told me that I would need to 'help' her get ready on Superbowl Sunday since she had a 'date' after the game. The way she mentioned it immediately got me excited since I had jokingly sent her a link to a local craigslist ad for a guy looking for a date for a Superbowl party.

Obviously I was excited on Sunday, both for the game and what was going to happen afterwards. Game itself was pretty entertaining, but then after the game was when the real fun started. She went to the bedroom for a bit and then texted me that she needed some "help". When I went into the room she was sitting in a chair with her phone, and said "you know what to do", nodding towards the bed which had handcuffs laid down on my pillow. I laid down and shackled myself to the headboard as I've done a few times recently (there are some other stories about the handcuffs, maybe for a future blog post :)). After I got myself "settled" she pointed to the dresser and asked me what I thought her date might want to see her in for the party. She had hung up three options...a very tight blue mini dress with fishnets, a short black dress that barely covered her ass, and a corset/garter belt combo with stockings. I told her that since it was a party and she'd be going out, I thought the dress would be most appropriate as I began to get hard thinking about her walking into a room full of guys in that dress. She then asked me if I wanted to watch her get changed, of course I said yes...at which she laughed a little then went to the bathroom to change so I couldn't see...what a tease!

When she came out, she had the dress on with the fishnets and some knee high black leather boots with a heel. She asked how she looked and if she thought her "friends" would like what they saw. Of course I said yes, and she then got on the bed and started to gently touch me all over, telling me about where the party was and how many guys would be there. My mind was racing with images of what it would look like when she straddled my face and teased me with peeks up her short dress, I was tied to the bed so was at her mercy for even a touch of her ass, which she eventually gave me, but only with the tip of my tongue.

Convinced that she was ready (and me too), she said she had to go and left me there in the dark....

The Search

We recently decided to start another 'search' for a guy. I've spent some time on craigslist, first replying to some m4mw ads, then posting my own ad, and then replying to some more m4mw ads since the guys that had replied to my ads were bordering on massive flakiness :)

It's been interesting to say the least. There's something odd about replying to another guy's ad who wants to have my wife, and maybe even odder to post my own ad to do this (in the past, my wife was always the one doing the posting since ultimately she's holds the deciding vote on who, if anyone, we actually meet). This time around I thought I did a pretty good job of posting a clear and concise ad, that spelled out what we wanted and actually got a bunch of what I considered (by craigslist standards) good replies. After weeding through a bunch, I showed my wife the pics of the guys that I thought were most promising and let het pick her favorite(s). She picked two so I sent each mail letting them know they had made the first cut and gave them her email address...this is where things started getting a little strange. One guy got very into pics at this point, so I sent him a couple (since he had been kind enough to share his), but as is always our rule with online communication, didn't send any face pics. I guess this disappointed him because despite saying he would, he never contacted my wife.

The other guy took several days to reply to me, but ultimately said he would be interested in meeting us for drinks one night...but again, once it came time to set something up, he disappeared. That led me to look for more ads from other guys, which in turn led to a night out to meet someone...a story for the next post :)

Catching Up

It's been awhile since I last posted and while things have been good with us, we've had a busy summer that didn't lead to much in the way of hotwife action, which explains the gap in posts :)



I did neglect to followup on my last post where I hinted at some fun while we were out for dinner and drinks. Well, earlier that day we had stopped at the adult toy store and picked up a few things, most notably a small vibrator (about the size of your thumb) that we thought might be interesting to have with us on our datenight. After a nice meal, we went to a nearby bar and had some drinks. At one point my wife excused herself and when she came back she sat down and said 'it's in and on', obviously referring to the vibrator :) We talked a bit, mostly about sex of course, and it was during that conversation that I showed her the site that I gave the link to in my previous post, where I had entered her into the contest on voyeurweb.com. She really liked the picture, and even more, liked the fact that I entered her in the contest :)

The whole contest thing had come about when I had sent her a link to another site (and the link indicated that it was a contest). The link was actually to a web model that she knows I like, and she made some comment about thinking I had entered her in the contest before she saw that it was the web model. I sensed her interest and turns out she did like it.

So back to the bar that night, I ordered another round of drinks to tease her some more and sure enough, by the time we got back to the car she was ready to go. We had about a 30min drive home and between her and me, we had that vibrator on her clit pretty much the whole time, needless to say the sex was great when we got home :)

More recently I've been starting to look around for our next adventure, I have some ideas but would love comments/feedback/suggestions on what we should do next!