Thursday, July 16, 2009

This weekend

My wife and I have been talking alot this week about her going on another date (like the first one) this weekend. I admit it was mostly my idea, but I was very conscious to not push it, just throw it out there to see what she thought, the week went something like this....

Monday: me - "Maybe you should try and go out for drinks again this weekend"; her - "Well, we'll have to see" (i.e. not really that interested)
Tuesday: me - "Have you talked to him to see if he's available?"; her - "No, have been busy with other things" (i.e. still not interested)
Wednesday: me - "(via email) here are some links to some bars downtown, you know, just in case you were looking for a place to go on Saturday, haha"; her - no reply via mail, but then that night she asked why I was so interested in her going out again and I just said I think it would be hot....she said "how far can I go this time?"

Maybe it was the way she said it, or the look as she asked, or just the fact that she asked at all...but I IMMEDIATELY got turned on. I could tell she was thinking about sex, but I also know her and she's said in the past that she wants me there for that (we both want that)...so I said "well I'd like to be there if there's going to be sex, but kissing would be ok with me". She kind of smiled and said she figured she had to at least put out that much.....

Earlier tonight, we talked some more and at a certain point she looks up from her laptop and said, "ok, I sent him an email to see if he's available for Saturday!"

:-)

Monday, July 6, 2009

Things are still moving along :-)

Things have been busy here for the past few weeks, and haven't had much time for updating the blog or keeping our adventure into the hotwife lifestyle loving, but things are progressing, just at a slower pace than they were before.

Most recently, we've been talking about meeting my wife's "friend" (not sure if he quite qualifies as a boyfriend yet, but please chime in if you think he does!), at a hotel in town sometime in August. What we've talked about to date, which is admittedly short on details, is to get a room at a very nice hotel in the city, my wife and I go out for dinner and arrange for him to meet us in the hotel bar for drinks afterwards. After some chat, and flirting (I wonder which side of the table she'll sit on?), we're all feeling good and decide to head up to the room for some real fun. My wife had sent him a mail several weeks ago asking if he was into it (the words that she used in the mail were incredibly hot, its amazing to see the things that she writes to him), and he replied with a strong YES!

So now we're working on planning the day and picking the hotel....

And in related news, she went shopping at the mall this weekend for a new bathing suit, my jaw hit the floor when she showed me the sexiest little black bikini (she's never worn a bikini in all the years I've known her), this is going to be a very fun summer :-)