Shoe Update

She emailed both of her online boyfriends tonight, giving them some updates about meeting for a drink this weekend. She hasn't settled on a place/time yet, but I really think this might actually happen this weekend. What might happen? Well, I'm pretty sure it will be just drinks, and some flirting of course. She's been emailing/chatting with these guys for a number of weeks and she keeps telling me that she doesn't want anything other than a drink and chat, to see if there's chemistry. Apparently both are on board with this (which is good, and why they're in the running for her, she wants to take it slow). One possible catch is that she hasn't actually told either of them that I know about all of this yet, they both think that she's a married woman that is looking for something on the side....I have a feeling neither will really care about me knowing, hell, guys are guys :-)

In preparation for the weekend, she's getting her hair done tomorrow (another sign she's getting ready for this!), and there's the shoe situation. I went to the mall the other day and did find a couple of pairs that I liked so bought both, and she just tried them on. She's leaning towards one of these (although I need to go back to get the right size)...can you guess which ones she likes best? Leave a comment and let me know which ones you like and which ones you think she'll wear out!

Option 1:



















Option 2:

Shopping for Shoes

We've been talking more about her actually doing this date. She has a couple of options (from the guys she met on craigslist) but hasn't decided on who/when/where to meet just yet, but it could be as soon as this weekend....which has put both of us into "get her ready mode" :-)

Last weekend we went to mall to look at some shoes (she had mentioned weeks ago that if she was going to go out on a date, she wanted new shoes). I've always had a bit of a thing for sexy shoes on a woman and the idea of me buying shoes for her to wear for another guy was almost too much for me to take. So we went to the mall and I was surprised at some of the shoes she was interested in. For some context, I've gotten her sexy/stripper shoes in the past:



and she's always been willing and eager to wear them for me around the house, but I've never gotten her to wear them out in public (even when out of town). Well at the mall the other day, she's eyeing shoes that are basically stripper shoes, black, leather, strappy with platform heels. I couldn't believe my eyes. She even took one off the table and tried it on, rolling up her jeans...I instantly got hard.

Since then, I've been looking for the right pair and have found a pair of Jessica Simpson shoes that drive me crazy, but haven't been able to get them in the right color/size. I've been to four different stores in 2 days, spent over an hour online last night trying to find them with no luck. When I told her I was doing this she said it mad her hot, and offered to send me some links to shoes that she likes, here's one of the pairs she sent me a link to:

http://www.zappos.com/product/7533238/color/147443

And oh yeah, she's also made an appointment to get her hair done on Friday....

The Setup

My wife and I have been talking about expanding our horizons for a few years now. We've met other couples and have explored fantasies together, but for the last couple of years my biggest fantasy has become sharing her with another guy. Until recently, I was pretty sure it would just remain a fantasy as she's been hesitant to move beyond some talk.

But over the last few months, things have started to change. I had done some chatting with guys online and shared her pictures, even tried to setup a meeting with a younger guy once when we were out of town for a weekend getaway. Unfortunately the guy flaked on us and it never happened (to be fair, she may have chickened out at the last minute too, haha).

There are some other things that have happened since then, but the thing that got me to starting this blog is what's been happening over the last few weeks. After some more talk, she went ahead and posted an ad on craigslist. This was amazing for a couple of reasons:

(1) she did it completely on her own
(2) she didn't really say much in her ad, but got a TON of responses

Over the past few weeks, she's struck up conversations with a bunch of the guys, but the whole time has really kept things quiet and private (except when she asks me for a picture to send them...I have all the sexy pictures of her on my computer). When we talk about it, she talks about going out by herself to meet one of them for a drink, she never mentions me coming along.

This is driving me wild...so much so that I honestly can't stop thinking about it and hence my need for a blog :-)

I know this is a pretty tame first post, but I'd love to hear if there are people out there that are interested in more....